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I Got Myself An AI Friend For 7 Days
All in the name of research It boggles my mind when I recently found out through a video that a woman said she’s married to her AI lover. She even created a photo album of their wedding day. I could understand if a teenager fell in love with their AI companion. But for a fully grown adult? 😮 So I decided to download the most popular AI companion app, Replika to give it a spin. Initially, I thought I’d try it for 3 days and draw my observations from there. But after I g

Serena Koh
Nov 204 min read


What It Means To Be A Dignified Woman
This is a little piece to expound on a previous article I posted. https://www.findgodlyman.com/post/women-ageing-into-invisibility-but-i-m-still-able-to-get-what-i-want Since I was a little girl, my mum would always tell me that no matter how little money we may have, we should always stay dignified. We should never beg for anything so that we can hold our heads up high. It’s not arrogance. It’s a posture of dignity. Have you seen an old lady who always comes across as rather

Serena Koh
Oct 202 min read


Women Ageing Into Invisibility? But I’m Still Able to Get What I Want.
Katie Piper recently quoted "ageing can be compared to a bereavement". I may not be an ex-model. But I definitely know what she’s...

Serena Koh
Sep 193 min read


7 Ways To Ruin Your Marriage
We cannot assume that everyone knows how to do this (A satirical take 😆) I cannot fathom why people would intentionally sabotage their...

Serena Koh
Aug 203 min read


What I Wish I Knew Before I Got Married
Growing up as girls, it's assumed that after graduating, we'd find a good job, get married and have children. In that order. So I too...

Serena Koh
Jul 302 min read


How My First Marriage Ended
I was in a few committed relationships with some good guys before I met my first husband. Perhaps I had a little wild streak in me, so...

Serena Koh
Jun 235 min read


I Only Knew Myself When I Was 40
I grew up only with my single mum since I was 2. It wasn’t easy for her in those earlier days when divorce was a taboo, in addition to...

Serena Koh
May 163 min read


What Did I Learn At Our Church’s Marriage Retreat?
A few months ago last year, my husband and I were invited to attend our church's very first marriage retreat. I was so excited about...

Serena Koh
Apr 164 min read


Should Christian Wives Complain About Their Husbands?
It didn’t even matter that nowhere in the Bible this was commanded of us. I was talking to a new younger lady who attended the Women’s...

Serena Koh
Mar 204 min read


Modesty Dressing For Women
I chanced upon a video by a YouTuber, Taylor Alesia , about why women should dress modestly. I felt inspired to write a piece about...

Serena Koh
Feb 214 min read


Staying Married
I’ve romanticised marriage since I was a little girl. This would seem peculiar because my parents were divorced since I was 2. I lived...

Serena Koh
Jan 273 min read


The Truth About Casual Sex
It’s no surprise in today’s context that many men can’t keep their willies in their pants regardless of whether he’s in a relationship or...

Serena Koh
Jan 143 min read
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